Category: Leave and Cleave
The Sad Truth About Long-Term LDR, Part 2 (10 Emotional Needs Part 8)
November 11, 2018What we think about the common “defenses” for LDR… (0:32) LDR REASON 1: “Walang opportunities sa Pilipinas” (0:57) LDR REASON 2: “Hindi kailangan ‘physically together’ ang mag-asawa” (1:42) LDR REASON 3&4: “Distance doesnt matter” & “Many cheat in Pinas anyway” (2:22) LDR REASON 5: “Kaya basta may constant communication” (3:09) LDR REASON 6: “Nasasabi nyo […]
read moreVLOG: THE SAD TRUTH ABOUT LDR (10 Emotional Needs Part 4)
September 3, 2018Since we started this site, so many people have messaged us privately, asking how to deal with LDRs. Here is what we have to say…
read moreRM READER ASKS: “My parents are always controlling me! What do I do?”
April 12, 2018RICHARD AND MARICAR: A teenager is frustrated because her mother is “controlling her life.” A lady in her 20’s cannot work abroad because her parents don’t agree it’s the best career path. A lady in her 30’s can’t save money because she’s paying for most of the house expenses, but can’t say anything because her […]
read moreSome Chinese Families Still Look Down on a Filipina Bride
September 21, 2017RICHARD: A FILIPINA girl having serious problems MARRYING A CHINESE man messages my wife on our Relationship Matters Ph Facebook page… (For those who don’t know, I’m pure-Chinese who married a Filipina.) Here is my wife MARICAR’s reply to Filipina girl: “Wo Ai Ni’, chinese for “I love you”/”Mahal kita” MARICAR: I […]
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